Tweens are in the awkward middle: too old for the kids' list, too young for the teen one. The kids' questions make them roll their eyes and the teen questions make parents nervous. This list is for the gap — 100 never have i ever questions written for ages 10 to 13, funny enough for a sixth-grade sleepover and clean enough to read out loud in front of a parent.
They are grouped by the things tweens actually have opinions about: school, sleepovers, siblings, phones and games, food, sports and activities, and the small embarrassing moments everyone has had and nobody admits to. Nothing about dating, nothing about anything they would have to hide from a grown-up.
Read them from this page, print the sets you want, or open the free Never Have I Ever game and let it draw questions on a tablet. If you're running a birthday party, the party section has a version that works with fifteen kids and no chairs.
Why Tweens Need Their Own List
A ten-year-old and a thirteen-year-old are not the same person, but they will end up at the same sleepover, and the game has to work for both. The trick is questions about shared territory — school, siblings, phones, snacks — where a fifth grader and an eighth grader have equally strong feelings and equally funny stories.
Tweens also have a sharp radar for questions that are secretly about lecturing them. Every question here is about something funny or slightly embarrassing that happened, not about something they should or should not do. That is the difference between a game they ask to play again and a game they tolerate.
How to Play With Tweens
Ten fingers. Everyone holds up ten fingers. Read a question. Anyone who has done it puts a finger down. Last person with fingers up wins. This is the classic version and tweens pick it up in one round.
Stand up, sit down. Better for a big group or a party. Everyone starts standing; if you have done the thing, sit down. Last one standing wins the round. Loud, fast, no counting.
Story round. After each question, one person who put a finger down has to tell the story in one sentence. This is where the game gets good — and it is the reason to keep the questions clean, because the stories are going to be told.
100 Never Have I Ever Questions for Tweens, in 7 Sets
All clean, all ages 10–13. School and sleepover sets are the easiest openers. Save the embarrassing set for when everyone is comfortable.
🏫School15 questions
Homework, hallways, and the one substitute everyone remembers.
Never have I ever forgotten my homework and blamed the printer.
Never have I ever fallen asleep in class.
Never have I ever gotten lost on the first day of school.
Never have I ever walked into the wrong classroom and sat down.
Never have I ever finished a project the morning it was due.
Never have I ever laughed so hard in class I got in trouble.
Never have I ever had a substitute teacher say my name wrong.
Never have I ever forgotten my locker combination.
Never have I ever traded lunches with someone.
Never have I ever been picked last in gym class.
Never have I ever gotten a perfect score on a test I didn't study for.
Never have I ever pretended to understand something the teacher said.
Never have I ever lost a permission slip.
Never have I ever had a class pet escape.
Never have I ever raised my hand and then forgotten what I was going to say.
🌙Sleepovers15 questions
Pillow forts, midnight snacks, and who fell asleep first.
Never have I ever fallen asleep first at a sleepover.
Never have I ever built a pillow fort that collapsed.
Never have I ever stayed up past midnight and regretted it in the morning.
Never have I ever gotten scared during a movie and pretended I wasn't.
Never have I ever had a midnight snack and hidden the wrapper.
Never have I ever called my parents to pick me up from a sleepover.
Never have I ever had a pillow fight that broke something.
Never have I ever woken up on the floor instead of the bed.
Never have I ever made a prank call at a sleepover.
Never have I ever gotten in trouble for being too loud after lights out.
Never have I ever had a sleepover where nobody actually slept.
Never have I ever borrowed pajamas because I forgot mine.
Never have I ever had breakfast for dinner at a sleepover.
Never have I ever gotten homesick at a friend's house.
Never have I ever fallen asleep during the movie I picked.
👫Siblings & Family14 questions
Only children may pass. Everyone else has a story.
Never have I ever blamed something on my sibling.
Never have I ever been blamed for something my sibling did.
Never have I ever hidden the remote from a sibling.
Never have I ever eaten the last cookie and denied it.
Never have I ever gotten grounded for something I still think was fair.
Never have I ever had a family photo where I was making a face.
Never have I ever lost a board game and flipped the board.
Never have I ever been embarrassed by a parent in public.
Never have I ever had to share a room.
Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to avoid chores.
Never have I ever gotten a haircut I hated from a family member.
Never have I ever fought over the front seat.
Never have I ever had a grandparent call me by the wrong name.
Never have I ever secretly liked something my sibling picked.
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Screen time, group chats, and the game you're not supposed to be that good at.
Never have I ever played a game way past my screen-time limit.
Never have I ever accidentally sent a message to the wrong person.
Never have I ever dropped my phone or tablet and cracked it.
Never have I ever lost a game and blamed the controller.
Never have I ever muted a group chat because it was too loud.
Never have I ever watched the same video ten times in a row.
Never have I ever forgotten my password and had to reset it.
Never have I ever rage-quit a game.
Never have I ever taken a selfie and deleted it right away.
Never have I ever stayed up late because I was so close to beating a level.
Never have I ever gotten caught with my phone under the covers.
Never have I ever had a video call freeze on my worst face.
Never have I ever been better at a game than an adult in my family.
Never have I ever lost a streak and been genuinely upset.
🍕Food15 questions
Weird combinations and the vegetable you hid under the napkin.
Never have I ever hidden vegetables under a napkin.
Never have I ever eaten cereal for dinner.
Never have I ever dipped fries in a milkshake.
Never have I ever eaten a whole bag of chips by myself.
Never have I ever burned toast and eaten it anyway.
Never have I ever tried a food and spit it out.
Never have I ever put ketchup on something that shouldn't have ketchup.
Never have I ever eaten dessert before dinner.
Never have I ever pretended to like a food a relative made.
Never have I ever had a birthday cake fall over.
Never have I ever eaten pizza cold for breakfast.
Never have I ever gotten brain freeze from eating too fast.
Never have I ever spilled a drink at a restaurant.
Never have I ever mixed every soda at the fountain.
Never have I ever eaten a snack that was supposed to be for the whole family.
⚽Sports & Activities14 questions
Practice, recitals, and the one time you scored on your own goal.
Never have I ever scored on my own team's goal.
Never have I ever forgotten my lines in a school play.
Never have I ever fallen off a bike in front of people.
Never have I ever quit an activity after one week.
Never have I ever gotten a participation trophy and been proud of it.
Never have I ever missed the bus to practice.
Never have I ever played an instrument badly on purpose to end practice early.
Never have I ever tripped during a race.
Never have I ever been the only one who showed up to practice.
Never have I ever cried after losing a game.
Never have I ever been on a team that never won.
Never have I ever forgotten which side of the field I was supposed to be on.
Never have I ever been late to a recital.
Never have I ever gotten hit by the ball in gym class.
😳Slightly Embarrassing13 questions
Everyone's done at least three of these.
Never have I ever waved at someone who was waving at someone behind me.
Never have I ever walked around with something stuck in my teeth all day.
Never have I ever called a teacher "mom."
Never have I ever tripped over nothing.
Never have I ever sang the wrong lyrics loudly.
Never have I ever laughed at the wrong moment.
Never have I ever worn two different shoes to school.
Never have I ever gotten my name wrong on a test.
Never have I ever had my voice crack while talking.
Never have I ever talked to myself and gotten caught.
Never have I ever pushed a door that said pull.
Never have I ever said "you too" when someone said "enjoy your meal."
Never have I ever had a bad photo of me become a family favorite.
Playing It at a Birthday Party
For a big group, use stand-up-sit-down with a parent reading. Fifteen kids, no chairs, no counting — the last one standing each round gets a point, and the game runs itself for twenty minutes. Pick the school, food and sports sets; they get the most laughs from a mixed group who may not know each other well.
Keep the embarrassing set for the smaller sleepover crowd that has known each other since kindergarten. It is funnier when everyone already knows the story.
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Are these questions really clean enough for a 10-year-old?
Yes. There is nothing about dating, crushes, or anything a tween would need to hide from a parent. The most daring set is the slightly embarrassing one, which is about things like calling a teacher mom.
What's the difference between the tween list and the kids list?
The kids list is written for ages 6 to 9 — simpler questions, no phones. This list assumes a phone or tablet, school stories, and a sense of humor about being embarrassed, which is where 10 to 13 lives.
How many questions do we need for a sleepover?
About 30 for a normal sleepover, 50 if they play the story round. Nobody has ever needed all 100 in one night — that is what the next sleepover is for.
Can I print these?
Yes. Print the page or copy the sets you want into a document. Each set is about 15 questions, which fits on one card.
Can tweens play the online game without an account?
Yes. The free Never Have I Ever game on this site needs no sign-up and no download — open it on a tablet, choose the question set, and tap to draw.
Is this okay for a school classroom?
The school, food, sports and sleepover sets work well as a Friday-afternoon icebreaker. Teachers usually skip the phones set if the school has a no-phones policy.